"Lots of people want to shake your hand during the time of Success....
but what you really want is someone who will take your hand and confort you in the moments
of Failure."
Everyone has dreams... everyone has future plans and things that wish to achieve or have. The majority of people when fail on something , forget their dream and compromise with something that they dont really want. So, out there , there are more than 6 BILLION people that have just accepted their failure. Because even if you dont try to do something that you really want, you failed to try.
There is the view that the opposite of "Success" is the word "Failure". In grammar this is the right answer , but in life things are different.
Failure should be our teacher, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Even if you fail on something 19 times, at 20th time you will be the best on this thing. So, you will not just succeed, but you will have much experience to be better than you predicted.
Imagine a ladder wich has 20 steps. Before you start climbing you check the top of the ladder . You aim high ... and you start climbing .You cant predict if the steps of the ladder are rotten, or if they will break. You cant also predict if you will feel fear . You just continue climbing until you will achieve to reach the top.
Does it seem simple? Do it on your life though.
Dont fear failure. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail - Bruce Lee.
Dream... schedule .... have future plans.... try to be better.... and even if you fail you have to know:
"Failure is the proof that you tried. NOW GO TRY AGAIN!"
Also watch the animated video HERE
Article :
Antonio Kalentzis
Psychologist
Member of British Psychological society
Clinical Psychologist, Neuropsychologist
Member of International Society of Coaching Psychologists
Member of International Society of Coaching Psychologists
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